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		<title>Experiential Learning in Outbound Environment</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 01:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Experiential learning is a process of transformation when, as a result of experience, one is inspired to apply in life, what emerges as a revelation or self-discovery. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/campp.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1827" src="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/campp-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Using outdoors as a classroom is interesting, fascinating and more importantly effective.</p>
<p>The term outbound has been adopted from the Navy, where a ship is said to be outward bound when it leaves its shores to sail into the unknown, rough sea. Similarly when we go out in a camp, we leave our shore, i.e., the comfort zone of our home and work place and travel to a new, open place in a natural environment with minimum comforts.</p>
<p>Experiential learning is a process of transformation when, as a result of experience, one is inspired to apply in life, what emerges as a revelation or self-discovery. We generally follow the Kolb Cycle, which states that in life we have an experience, we think about it (reflection), then we talk about it or write it (recording) and finally we analyse (processing), leading to another experience where we may apply the learning. Therefore it becomes a spiral of learning. This can also be described as the whole learning wheel, from goal setting, to experimenting and observing, to reviewing, and finally action planning.<span style="color: #0000ee;text-decoration: underline"><a href="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/sushil-cycle1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1832" src="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/sushil-cycle1-300x193.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="193" /></a></span></p>
<p><img src="/Users/Shreebha/AppData/Local/Temp/moz-screenshot-6.jpg" alt="" />You remember how you learnt cycling? Someone helped you support the cycle. You fumbled, fell down several times till you ‚Äògot‚Äô it. That was how you learnt the balance. I call it the ‚Äòaah‚Äô effect. You discover it and then it stays with you for life. Whether it was a burn which you experienced as a child, or tasting of honey, or learning swimming or cycling, they stay with you for life. You do not need to relearn it. That‚Äôs not true for academics or subjects you learnt in the classroom.</p>
<p>Leadership and team building are two such subjects that are best learnt on the ‚Äòexperiential learning‚Äô platform. You may read books on leadership and team building, but to be a good team player or an effective leader you have to experience it, just as a cook needs to cook in the kitchen. Reading recipes and learning by heart may help, but does not substitute the act of cooking.</p>
<p>In our camp we provide the experience in the form of a team activity. It is an interesting outdoor game. Participants enjoy a new experience, generally one they have never experienced before. After the activity is over participants reflect on the activity by writing down their emotions, their feelings, their sad, mad and glad moments. This is followed by a small group discussion in which teams go through the entire sequence and record what happened, what did not happen, and why. Then we facilitate the process of drawing out lessons from their experiences. What they learn from such experiences gets filtered into the subconscious mind and settles down as a way of life. To reinforce this we conduct a follow-up session after two to three months of the programme.</p>
<p>Experiential learning is extremely effective. We create an environment which lends itself to a new and interesting experience where all participants are at par in their knowledge about the tasks and projects that they face. There is nothing at stake. Your reputation, job security, promotion, a salary increase, nothing is affected. A unique set of projects and situations requires people to draw upon genuine team process skills as opposed to just functional ones.</p>
<p>Interacting in close proximity whilst working on new and unfamiliar challenges, makes the entire process very interesting. The interaction, communication and collaboration and efforts that are required to meet these challenges develop wonderful, everlasting relationships in a very short time. It engages people at a more personal level. People may get to know each other better in a single day within this environment than over an entire year of normal working conditions.</p>
<p><a href="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/camp.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1829" src="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/camp-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>In these activities, one‚Äôs true colours emerge. One cannot pretend or put up a false front for long. The group projects their communication skills, problem-solving capability, organizing ability, and leadership style into the experience. The experience provides a unique opportunity to catch participants doing what they typically do, in spite of knowing otherwise. The learning arising from this is profound and revealing.</p>
<p>Teams are able to experience chaos, disorder, crisis and changing requirements for success in a safe environment where the consequences for failure are limited. The team can develop strategies and best practices for managing these issues both in this environment and back at work.</p>
<p>The experience allows participants to take new risks, try on new roles and make mistakes with no danger or cost. Each person taking a risk pushes others to take on something outside of their comfort zone. There are always individuals who shine in this environment &#8211; whose leadership ability hasn&#8217;t been noticed at work.</p>
<p>The team challenges and activities are designed to include a variety of elements that will challenge a range of team role skills. In other words input from all team members will be required to produce outcomes from projects specifically designed not to suit just one team role style or behaviour. One person cannot possibly succeed alone and so the interdependence of the team is highlighted along with the importance of diversity within the team.</p>
<p>The entire learning happens while having fun. We create a highly interesting and enjoyable learning environment in which participants learn about and develop team and management process skills with ease and in comfort.</p>
<p>Experiential learning is effective both indoors as well as outdoors. Yet, the outdoor environment with the terrain, weather and environmental challenges make it more challenging and therefore can result in more effective learning. Teachers in schools and colleges can reinforce their classroom teachings with experiential education. Learning is more effective and lasts much longer.<br />
As stated by the ancient Chinese philosopher Confucius, &#8220;Tell me and I will forget, show me and I may remember, involve me and I will understand.&#8221;<br />
<em>Brig. Sushil Bhasin is Chairman and Managing Director of Empower Activity Camps.</em></p>
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		<title>You are One of a Kind</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 08:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you remember what God told you when you were about to take off on your journey from heaven to earth? You had just fastened your seat belt when God appeared and said, ‚ÄúI have never ever made anyone like you before!‚Äù ‚ÄúReally, God?‚Äù you asked. ‚ÄúYes,‚Äù He said. ‚ÄúWow, am I so great? Am [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/smiling_man.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1498" title="smiling_man" src="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/smiling_man-236x300.jpg" alt="" width="236" height="300" /></a>Do you remember what God told you when you were about to take off on your journey from heaven to earth? You had just fastened your seat belt when God appeared and said, ‚ÄúI have never ever made anyone like you before!‚Äù</p>
<p>‚ÄúReally, God?‚Äù you asked.</p>
<p>‚ÄúYes,‚Äù He said.</p>
<p>‚ÄúWow, am I so great? Am I a designer model?‚Äù</p>
<p>‚ÄúYes. And let me tell you, I promise never ever to make anyone like you in the future, too.‚Äù</p>
<p>Do you ever realize that there never was and there never will be a person like you? You are unique.</p>
<p>You enter this planet with that high a self-esteem. However, that doesn‚Äôt last long. The first person who punctures that self-esteem is generally the mother. Very unknowingly, very lovingly, with a lot of ignorance, the mother starts on a long journey of damaging the self-esteem. Imagine a 3 months young (I hate to say old. Before you can become young, the English language makes you old) baby sitting on the carpet. The baby pees on the carpet. He is playing in that liquid and enjoying himself till the mother storms in screaming at the top of her voice, ‚ÄúWhat have you done? You have spoilt my carpet worth Rs. 20000.‚Äù The baby does not understand the language, has no idea of what a carpet is, and does not understand what Rs 20000 is. All that he can make out is that the mother is annoyed.</p>
<p>This is probably the beginning of the erosion of the high self-esteem the baby came to the world with.</p>
<p>We often decry the child. How many times do we say ‚Äòno‚Äô and ‚Äòdon‚Äôt‚Äô to a child in a day? Every ‚Äòno‚Äô and ‚Äòdon‚Äôt‚Äô, every negative remark, slices off a part of the high self-esteem. Imagine a child coming from school and joyously telling about his victory and how he scored 100 runs in the school cricket match. The mother will usually respond with ‚ÄúYes, yes, keep playing cricket. Who will study?‚Äù It may be a good idea to share the moment of joy and happiness with the child. You can certainly remind him of the studies later.</p>
<p>A boy came back from the school with his report card. There were 5 A‚Äôs and 1B. The mother promptly asked, ‚ÄúWhat is this B doing here?‚Äù When we don‚Äôt appreciate the A‚Äôs and look at B‚Äôs, we dampen the spirits of the boy.</p>
<p>When the child goes to the school, the teacher takes over and reinforces the mother‚Äôs effort. The teacher and the parents need to establish synergy in handling the child. The parents need to know how the child behaves at school and the teacher must know what happens at home. This calls for proper exchange of inputs during the PTA meetings.</p>
<p><a href="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/self-esteem.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1467" title="self-esteem" src="http://tickledbylife.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/self-esteem-255x300.jpg" alt="" width="255" height="300" /></a>Your child feels great if he feels wanted, appreciated and loved. He feels great if he is told often that he is great. Conversely, he feels let down and discouraged and lives with a low self-esteem when he is told he does not know anything, does not deserve what he wants. Comparing a child with his siblings and friends can be damaging too. The child loves attention. Spend some time with him. Give him the love and care he deserves, and you will see great results. Self-esteem is reinforced with your encouragement. If you appreciate his decision-making skills and his ideas, he is sure to become a great achiever in life. Respect is another area children are hungry for. Take your child seriously and treat him with respect. Explain to him everything and treat him as an intelligent child. You will be pleasantly surprised with the astounding results.</p>
<p>People who feel good about themselves, produce great results.</p>
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