Persistence – the singular success differentiator
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D Muralidharan | Apr 02, 2009
Well I can’t resist writing again and again about this favourite life and success topic…persistence.
Persistence could communicate different meanings to different people, depending upon how it is interpreted, imaged and communicated – but by far it is the most singular differentiator and determinant for success in any endeavour. Just pick up any literature in goals and success – a Brian Tracy, Robin Sharma, Tony Robbins or a Brian Mayne – and be sure that this is mentioned.
And persistence is not about those huge and impossible tasks which we need to sweat it out to do. It is just having the mental strength and ability to ‘persist’ in doing that simple task that would lead to some accomplishment, set as a goal in one’s life.
To be just able to spend 30 minutes a day, consistently, in developing or nurturing a life skill, would lead to an achievement that would still be great and big enough to make a life difference. This could be hard exercising if one looks at a physical goal, writing 2 pages a day if it is a career and passion goal, or spending 30 minutes uninterrupted with spouse and son/daughter if it is a family goal. While it might appear to be a small thing at the outset, the key challenge here would be consistency – doing it everyday sans a break, and at the same time, and most important, in a ‘positive mental frame’.
Winning is a habit and outcome of persistence. And believe me, if one wants to win in life and all personal endeavours, being persistent will be the biggest differentiator.
Creating new habits is all about persistence. Just try to commit yourself to a new habit – as trivial as waking up 30 minutes early every day – the mental challenge and the accompanying physical challenge will be immense. You will need the power of the mind and a diehard commitment – a communiqué to the subconscious – to ensure that this happens.
The easier side in this is that you need to stretch only for 21 days and then it becomes natural – a habit that stays with you for life – and most importantly facilitates accomplishment in any area. I would suggest that everyone wanting to live life read and commit themselves to The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, the fable by Robin Sharma.
To make persistence a winning habit, I would urge – please, please strive to stretch your mind that extra bit to do something everyday. That something would be a key life skill or a winning quality in professional or personal life – anything you think is worth doing and trying.
Persist, create a winning habit and succeed! !
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Thank you for sharing this Murali. It’s very true, in my life as well as many others, but I think we want instant gratification. But I think it’s like the 15 minutes of success, it takes years to get it!!
Great “small” tool to get by in life!
I totally agree.
I’m based in Europe and in the Western world we would need more of it as a people, as well.
Although it is so far from our average Western way of thinking!
Let’s see when we will be able to pick up your wise suggestion.
Dear Murali,
Thank you. I find your article motivating. I agree with what you said. I want to share my reflections through this comment. My impediment to perseverence is instant appreciation or criticism. Unless I get positive strokes from the world, I cannot persevere. Even negative will do, but I cannot work alone. At times, I feel I am leading everyone else’s except my own life.
Your article is an eye opener and made me realise that I have to be closed to myself and away from the world for some periods of time to accomplish something.
Look forward to reading more of your articles.
Cheers,
Mukund
Murali – what a great post. It’s definitely one I needed today. The right goal and engaging the persistence “gene” is part of the equation. The missing parts include knowing the exact steps you need to take to make progress. For example, if you exercise “hard” everyday in the same way, you’ll get diminishing returns – your body “gets used to” the work and adapts so it doesn’t improve. Knowing how to change up your work out and following a plan for mixing it up is key. See http://www.biomechanix.net for more on the person who changed my body and my life.
The larger question I have is: how do we make the plan at WORK, change it up enough so we get increasing valuable results and reach our goal (and know when to set a new one)?
Great Insight Murali, I totally agree with you. Persistence can take you places you never thought possible.